I Love What I Do.

Every couple is different.

I love the challenge of that.

The work keeps me curious, engaged, and constantly learning.

Some days, I find myself in awe of the intelligence, courage, compassion, and individuality of the people who sit across from me.

I have the privilege of watching couples transform right before my eyes.

There is nothing quite like seeing two people move through their resistance, take an emotional risk, and begin doing courageous work together.

When that happens, we can move forward with greater clarity and confidence and it is incredibly rewarding, for everyone.

But my absolute favorite part of my job is the moment a couple no longer needs me to guide the conversation. They begin using the skills we have practiced to express themselves, listen to one another, and work through their concerns…all on their own without my help.

I get to sit quietly and watch the magic happen.

It still gives me chills every time it happens.

I gets me a little emotional and I feel incredibly proud because it means they have learned how to navigate the hard moments together. They are operating from the same playbook. They no longer need me in the room.

That, for me, is what this work is all about.