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I'm Marci, and I teach couples the relational skills needed for their relationship to withstand the test of time!
When couples come to me, they're usually feeling...
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Hopeless
Can our relationship be healed? Can we get back to a place where both of us are happy? Is there too much damage? We've been to multiple therapists...this is our last effort.
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Frusterated
We keep having the same conversations over and over, with no solutions. The tension just builds and builds. We can't talk about certain things anymore.
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Lonely
Maybe it's me? Maybe I'm the problem? I don't feel heard or understood. I'm not sure what to say anymore. We aren't connected. I don't know what to do about it.
That's where I come in.
We all want to feel heard, loved, and understood.
I teach couples how to communicate effectively, manage conflict, and engage relationally with each other.
What if you could have a relationship where you feel safe, calm, competent, connected, and unified?
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Feel safe to talk about your experience and feelings
No more armor. No more battle wounds. What if you could talk to your partner about anything? And they listened and didn't judge?
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Feel calm and competent
What if you didn't panic at the first sign of conflict? What if you never had the thought "here we go again?" Imagine embracing conflict as an expected part of your relationship and that conflict can create intimacy rather than division? You know what to do and so does your partner. You both feel confident in tackling whatever comes your way.
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Feel connected and unified
Being unified doesn't mean you always agree. It means that when you don't agree, you both are operating from the same set of rules to get through it. You find a "solution" that takes into account both people's perspectives and needs. No more "giving in" or "resignation" or "capitulation" or "forced compliance," because you will both be involved in creating the solution. These skills will actually draw you closer to one another. Imagine a day where you connect in your differences, rather than them dividing you!
I help couples learn specialized skills so they can create the relationship they've always wanted!
As Couples Coach, I help people:
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I teach conflict management skills
Let's be honest, there is far more to this than most people understand. I'll teach you the skills needed AND provide you with real-time feedback on things that may be particular to you or your relationship that are getting in the way of success.
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I teach communication skills
Communication is hard. Especially in intimate relationships. Many people say they don't have issues managing conflict or communicating at work or in other relationships. That may be true. When your heart is on the line...it can feel like risky business to talk about your feelings. And sometimes you may not even know how you are feeling.
I teach couples how to attune to their own feelings and needs and articulate them in a way that gets them heard. I also teach couples the art of listening. And yes, it's an art form.
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I teach relational skills
Yes, there are skills involved here. But really it's more of a mindset shift for most people. When you understand what it looks and feels like to act relationally, your whole way of interacting changes. You might still feel triggered or have intense emotions, but your way of thinking about them and communicating about them will change.
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I help repair.
Many people feel like they can' t move forward until they heal the wounds of the past. I will help you each learn to let go of resentments of the past and embrace the present moment in order heal and move forward.
What does it mean to be relational?
Being Relational means:
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Connection
Connection on an interpersonal and emotional level. Using interpersonal skills to understand and communicate your own emotions AS WELL AS being curious and tolerating your partners emotional experience.
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Fullfillment
Fulfillment comes when you maintain your own emotional well-being and influence your partner's well-being through interpersonal connectedness.
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Interpersonal Intelligence
Part of emotional intelligence is being able to engage with others in their emotional experience, express empathy, and connect to their experience, and yours, all interchangeably. The interpersonal process that goes on between 2 people with different personalities is highly complex. Your interpersonal skills will be enhanced across the board, with friends, family, your kids, and parents.
Meet Your New Coach
Hey, I'm Marci!
I've specialized in couples for over 10+ years!
I am a clinically trained coach.
Which is the best kind of coach!
I use my education, training, and experience as a therapist to get your relationship where you want it!
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I love humor!
I laugh with my clients A LOT. It's not a requirement, but I sure do enjoy it when we do!
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I think like a boy and a girl.
Male vs female stereotypes aside....I speak both (many of my clients confirm this). Many years of working with men (in other fields), I just get them. And well, I'm a woman too. I just get us. So there's a good chance I'll "get" both of you.
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I've been a female business owner for 10+ years.
I started a separate business with a fellow therapist. It was supposed to be our "side hustle." We created our own business model based off a need we saw in our industry. And it took off! We recently sold all 3 locations and are moving on to bigger things! So I get what it's like juggling business, careers, kids, sports, family life, etc. Life happens to me too!
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It's time to create the relationship you've always wanted!
It's time to heal!
It's time to take the leap!
IT'S TIME!